We lucked out that Gwen is 4. We flew Southwest out of Manchester and they have a policy where you pick your own seat - sort of a free for all. That is great if you're by yourself but if you have kids you can't be separated. Luckily they allow families with children 4 and under to board ahead of the crowd.
We stayed at the Caribbean Beach Resort which is the largest resort in Disney. It's made up of many buildings clumped in groups named after Caribbean islands. We knew this time of year is Disney's slow time but I was amazed at how few people we ran into at our building. The Caribbean is a moderately priced hotel located near Epcot and because it is the largest the bus that takes you to the parks has to drive around the complex before it even leaves for the park. We found a great deal online for a car rental so we did that so we wouldn't have to deal with the bus. It helped reduce the stress of moving about Disney.
Because we went at the slow time Disney had a great deal where we get the meal plan for free. Each person gets a sit down meal, a quick service meal, and a snack. We brought snacks and breakfast food as well.
We made a reservation at the Polynesian resort on the first day because we were told the food was to "die" for. It was good but no one died. I've always wanted to stay at the Polynesian but it costs three times the amount of the Caribbean and I'm waaay too frugal aka cheap for that.
We took the monorail from the Polynesian to the Magic Kingdom where we got in just as it opened. We stayed just before closing and watched the fireworks from the ferry back to the parking lot. That is when I remembered I had been on that same ferry before when I was about as big as Gwen. I think that first trip to Disney melded with later trips in my memory.
What amazed me most was Gwen's ability to keep walking all day. We were out there over 12 hours. She pointed at an older kid in a stroller and asked what was wrong with his legs?
We spent two days at the Magic Kingdom then went to Epcot where we watched the captain EO 3D show staring Michael Jackson. It might be time to retire that show - the quality is really bad, but Morgan is a huge fan of Michael Jackson so we had to see it. On the plus side we got to go the steak house in the Canadian pavilion which I am told is always crazy busy. It was very good, so I can see why. We also enjoyed the food at the Indian, British pavilions.
Lastly we went to Hollywood Studios and Animal Kingdom. Both we find are not full day events. Hollywood has some great rides for older kids but not much for younger ones. Animal Kingdom just doesn't have much at all which is fine since we had a late flight to catch anyway. However, both have a great BBQ stand with smoked meats including turkey legs.